Buy respect , don’t buy a boy!

Bachpan mai sikhate the ke sabse pyaar karo, sabki respect karo. Par jab apni baat ki respect aati hai tab, people suggest ‘Don’t expect returns’

Kyu aaj itna bacho ko padhate hai likhate hai , jab bache apni marzi se hi shadi nai kar sakte?

Kyu parents ko aisa lagta hai ke hamari community ke ladke aur ladekiyan hi ache hain aur inter-caste all boys and girls aren’t worth joining any other community?

If you love someone, do fight till your last breath, this was taught to us in schools, as we read plays of Romeo & Juliet, and so on.

People say education is the best part of our lives and if humne love marriage kar li toh log toh aise blame karte hai ki Maa Baap ne itna padhaya itni azaadi de di toh galat kia, kyuki ab ladka/ladki zidd kar rahe hai love marriage karne ki.

Log bolte hai logo ki mat suno, log kuch bhi bolte hai aur ye wahi log hote hai jo dusro ke liye bolte hai par jab khud nai sudhar sakte, gossips se upar nahi aa sakte toh hum kahan jaae?

Parents se fight kyu kare, ki humko abhi shaadi nai karni, hamari beti 22 saal ki ho gayi hai ab toh koi bada ghar dekh k usse shaadi karwani hai. Arre aisa kyu? Kya ladki badi nai ho sakti? Kya luxury is all girls need?

What do the girl’s parents think ?
Ki  acha paise wala ghar dekh ke hum shaadi karwa dete hai , for example, ek ladke ke paas bahot paisa hai par wo society ke saamne uski respect nai deta aur galat treat karta hai toh ladki kya karegi aise paisae ka? Upar se dowry system – log bolte hai “Everyone is educated.”  Dowry system should be stopped , aur ab jab ladka ladki ek dusre ko dekhte hai ladke wale aisa hi puchte hai “kitna milega?” Bhai ladke walo ke parents tumhara beta kya itna bhi kaabil nai hai jo usko aise bech rahe ho ? Upar se hum girls unko kharidti hai toh bhi humko hi saara disrespect, disvalue handle karna hota hai?

Meri toh har ladki se yeh hi dua hai ki please tum khud badi bano, koi aur bada mat dekho. Buy respect , don’t buy a boy!

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